It’s a brand new world with a brand new breed of women who are not at all ready to get treated like objects that you can have and discard as per your whims and fancies.

They like being independent with the ability to taste success in each and every sphere of their lives and today when the man tries to pull her back and sculpt her according to his own selfish desires, he is insulted in public and left out for the world to pity on.

Hey, if you man are already shivering after reading this, don’t download any fear, for if you are courteous, you are in the safe-zone.

Selena Gomez, the actress popular for playing the lead character of Alexandra Margarita “Alex” Russo in Wizards of Waverly Place, an epic television series, has recently given it back to a former man of hers in an interview with a popular magazine.

Selena in that interview has accused her former boyfriend of taking advantage of her willingness to have him pleased and happy all the time.

She says that for that very year, she had stopped being herself and had started dancing to his tunes to the extent that she no more cared what her loved ones had to say.

Everyone hated her guy at that point of time, but it was her love that distanced her from every reality that was right there in front of her.

She feels that for the whole of that year she chose to make herself more and more perfect for her guy, which at the end of the day had real damaging effects on her individuality and her identity in the industry.

She laments those moments by revealing that then she could never dress comfortably and had to always dress up in a rather formal manner (a condition imposed by her boyfriend) for every social gathering of his.